Best TMC Ever!

I think twitter math camps are like children or students . . . you're not supposed to have a favorite. But if I HAD to pick a favorite, it would be TMC16. The reason is largely because there was so much usefulness in the sessions I attended. I came home excited for the upcoming new year and ready to implement what I've learned. 

Here are a few things I hope you will hear more about this year . . . 

1. Debate and Discussion in math class! My HOPE for this year . . . my #1TMCthing . . . is to put structure to the discussions that happen in my math class. I've had my students seated in groups of four for years. Years! And yet I've never felt like the conversations they are having have reached the productive level that I desire. Chris and Mattie did a great job of showing us how to structure discussion so that it focuses on answers AND reasons. There is always a "because". If you would like more detail, I recommend you read this post by Sam (specifically "Talk in the Math Classroom" near the end). He did a beautiful job summarizing our morning sessions.

2. Make it Stick! Unlike every other session, this one stressed me out. It exposed some weaknesses in the way that I teach that I really want to address. The problem is that the correction involves more of a fundamental shift than just a little tweak here or there. And I'm really ready for a year when "change everything" is not on my to-do list. So I decided to commit to making two baby steps: First of all, I'm reading the book and participating in the chat on twitter. This one is already underway. Yay me! Secondly, I'm going to begin spiraling practice of content through warm-ups. It's a start. 

That's it. That's my 10%. Well, that and a few other takeaways . . . 

*Getting Triggy: Kristen shared a great collection of trig activities. I heart trig, and I'm excited to add her goodies to my toolbox . . . and to make some of my old favorites BETTER.

*Box Method: My math department has just decided to begin using the box for all things polynomial, so I was excited to see how Anna presents these to her students. I love how the box pulls together multiplication, factoring, and division in a way that will hopefully lead to better conceptual understanding.

*New Desmos Stuff: Sadly, I did not get to attend the Desmos pre-conference. But card sorts and marble slides oh my! I'm as excited as everyone else to bring the latest in Des-awesome to my classroom.

*Warm-ups: I've decided to go the spiraled-practice route for my warm-ups this year, but thank you to Jessica and Lisa for a really nice list of resources for great problems that can really be used for more than the beginning of class. When it's time for trig, I want to try a counting circle and clothesline for counting/ordering in radians!

*The Fun Math Game with The Lame Name

*Regrets: This is almost verbatim from last year's TMC post . . . I was lucky enough to travel to TMC with my entire math department (all four of us) for the third year in a row. I love sharing this experience with them, and coming home with some shared vision for our school. I get how rare it is to have that kind of collaboration at home. But once again I really missed out on connecting with the other attendees. 

*Lunch: Following the Make it Stick session, I asked a few others if they would like to have lunch and continue our conversation. It was a GREAT time talking with some people who I really admire, and I learned so much it was like a whole other session. It took some stepping out of my comfort zone to make this happen, but I'm so glad I did. If I'm lucky enough to attend TMC again next year, more of this is on my list of goals FOR SURE. I don't want to come home from another TMC regretting that I didn't seize the opportunity to speak in person with those I admire and learn from throughout the year.

The Post Before THE POST

I just got back from TMC16. It was amazing, but I couldn't bring myself to write a recap without writing this post first. This year has been hard, and my personal story was so intense that it changed the lens through which I see all other things…

Disclaimer: This post is long and it's not about math. I'd love for you to read but it's okay if you don't. I wrote it for me. 

Last fall I posted about the birth of our son and his unexpected diagnosis of cleft lip and palate, but the challenges didn't stop there. 

When Silas was five days old, a routine eye exam showed that there was a structural problem on the inside of his eyes called a coloboma. Doctors told us it was too soon to know how severely it would affect his vision, but they made sure we understood that there was no surgery to correct it. My husband and I were heartbroken as we thought about what his future would be like without sight. 

There were other challenges, too. Silas cried. A lot. He struggled with eating and was eventually hospitalized with severe reflux. He needed a feeding tube to help him eat without pain. He had two surgeries to repair his cleft lip, get ear tubes, and repair a hernia. He had countless doctor appointments and tests, four ER visits, and another hospitalization. I spent every day terrified of what the future held for him. 

When he was two months old I went back to my classroom, but I went through so many days on autopilot. I was numb. And weary. And I wasn't sure that I should even be there at all. 

It has been the hardest year of my life. And it has changed me.

This year I learned to wake up every day knowing that, even when the unknown is way more than I can handle, I always have what I need to get through this day. 

I learned that fears and worries are only good for one thing … robbing us of the beautiful thing that is happening at the same time. 

I learned to rejoice, not because of our circumstances, but in spite of them. There is always something to be thankful for. 

One day this song came on the radio: Tell your heart to beat again . . . every word applies to me, but I'll just share the chorus here:

Tell your heart to beat again

Close your eyes and breathe it in

Let the shadows fall away

Step into the light of grace

Yesterday's a closing door

You don't live there anymore

Say goodbye to where you've been

And tell your heart to beat again

Your heart to beat again

Beat again

And so I made an effort to jump start the pieces of my heart that had stopped beating. I reconnected with friends . . . I put on my running shoes and trained up for a half marathon . . . I even wrote a blog post about something that was happening in my classroom. It felt foreign, but good.

Along the way I also made peace with Silas's differences. I realized that I spent so much time worrying if he was going to be okay, when there was never any question that he was going to be okay. Silas is okay because his life is a gift from God and because he will always, ALWAYS, be deeply loved. No diagnosis will ever change that.

Meanwhile, my husband landed his dream job as a building principal in our home town. His new schedule would allow him to be home with our kids during twitter math camp. Could I go this year? SHOULD I go this year? He said that I should. I think he knew that reconnecting with my teacher self would be another small step towards my healing.

I'm so glad I did. 

This week my teacher heart started to beat again. 

P.S. I can't close without letting you know that there is so much good news for this happy boy! He is almost 11 months old and he amazes us every day! We conquered reflux and he now eats entirely on his own. He healed beautifully from lip repair surgery. We have learned that he does have low vision in his left eye, but with both eyes together his visual acuity is in the typical range for his age. His ophthalmologist says he will definitely be a visual learner! We are so thankful for the good news and for how far he has come.